Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Unveiling the Elegance of Everyday Magic

Mes Chères, In a world bustling with the ordinary, there's a secret we, as sophisticated enchantresses, hold close to our hearts – the magic that dwells in the everyday. It's a touch of the extraordinary we add to life's canvas, creating a symphony of moments both bewitching and enchanting.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Elegant Charms

Mes Chères, In the whirlwind of our daily lives, we often seek out little tokens of comfort and luck. Whether it's a crystal, a cherished keepsake, or a lucky coin, these items hold deep personal significance and serve as elegant reminders of our intentions, goals, and values. This practice, steeped in ancient traditions, provides us with a sense of grounding and reassurance as we navigate our day-to-day adventures.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Thriving in 2024

Mes Chères and lovely readers! As we gracefully step through another season in 2024, it’s crucial to recognize the unique challenges and splendid opportunities that come with being a woman today. This post delves into not just surviving, but thriving—sharing rituals and strategies that empower us to nurture our dreams and cultivate substantial growth. These are a few things that have helped me harness my daily life; I never want to discourage someone from doing something differently. Share what has worked for you by sending me an email at bonjour@thebougiebrunette.com. I want to celebrate the ways we are all thriving.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Unveiling the Elegance of The Perfect Pickle Back Shot

Ah, pickles—a true staple in the global food realm, and oh-so-beloved by yours truly. There's something utterly satisfying about the tangy crunch and, dare I say, even a sip or two of that delightful brine. But hold on to your bougie hats, for I have a quirky and salty shot to introduce to you: the infamous Pickle Back.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

A Bougie Guide to Packing

Darlings, as we usher in the season of escapades and explorations, let's delve into the art of packing—a venture often seen as a prelude to the grand adventures that await. Yet, it need not be a source of distress. As your devoted Bougie Brunette, I come bearing the formula for packing with both elegance and efficiency, focusing on the charm of curating a capsule wardrobe for your travels.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Elegant Botanicals

In the lush tapestry of a sophisticated lifestyle, where each detail is curated with intention and grace, humble herbs emerge not just as culinary delights but as cornerstones of our bougie rituals. These verdant treasures, with their delicate whispers of flavor and fragrance, bridge the enchanting gap between the simple and the sublime, transforming the everyday into a canvas of luxury and wellness.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

The New Luxury

In an age where true affluence is measured by self-sufficiency and sustainability, the kitchen garden reemerges as a hallmark of sophisticated living. This isn’t merely gardening; it’s an assertion of control over our culinary destinies, ensuring that what we consume is as refined as it is wholesome. Join me, The Bougie Brunette, as we delve into the art of transforming ordinary backyards into lush, productive retreats where every harvest is a luxury.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Elevate Your Celebrations

In the world of hosting, there's an art to transforming an ordinary gathering into an extraordinary soirée. Whether it's a milestone birthday or a simple Sunday brunch, the key lies in embracing the finer details.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Five Essential Golf Insights

Before you step onto that pristine golf course, let's rewind the clock. My golf journey began with a brief lesson from a friend's father in 2002 – all I remembered was the importance of hand placement and grip tension. Fast forward to 2010, I found myself on a golf course during vacation, using rented clubs with zero knowledge. Surprisingly, I fell in love with the challenging, yet exquisite sport. Here's what I wish I knew back then.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

The Lost Art of Love Letters

In an era dominated by digital communication, the charm and intimacy of a handwritten love letter seem almost a relic of the past. Yet, there's something undeniably magical about pouring one's feelings onto paper, a tangible expression of love that can be held, cherished, and revisited over the years. My personal collection of romantic letters from the 1940s—each word a testament to the enduring love and affection between couples—serves as a beautiful reminder of the power such letters hold.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

The Magic of Cocktail Tuesdays

Bonjour, yes chères! Welcome to the enchanting world we call Cocktail Tuesdays! In this cozy corner of the internet, we delve into the magic that Tuesdays hold for me and the time-honored tradition that inspired it all.

For over a decade, Tuesdays were more than just a midpoint in the week; they were a cherished rendezvous. It was an evening reserved for a special gathering, a tradition we lovingly named 'Cocktail Tuesday.' A weekly event that brought together generations—myself, my mother, grandmother, and sometimes my sister-in-law. It was a time of connection, laughter, and shared moments.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Chic Wardrobe Essentials

Before you step onto that pristine golf course, let's rewind the clock. My golf journey began with a brief lesson from a friend's father in 2002 – all I remembered was the importance of hand placement and grip tension. Fast forward to 2010, I found myself on a golf course during vacation, using rented clubs with zero knowledge. Surprisingly, I fell in love with the challenging, yet exquisite sport. Here's what I wish I knew back then.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Elevating Everyday Dining

In today's fast-paced world, our daily routines often center around speed and efficiency. Grabbing a quick coffee to go, eating lunch at our desks, or ordering takeout for dinner has become the norm. But what if we told you there's a simple yet elegant way to infuse a touch of luxury into your daily life? It's just all about dusting off an pulling out the fine china, crystal, and stylish cloth napkins.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Floral Artistry

In the realm of refined living, few pursuits embody the essence of timeless grace like floral arranging. This art, often associated with grand occasions, can be a daily ritual for the Bougie Brunette, a testament to the importance of beauty in our lives.

Each flower is a brushstroke on the canvas of existence. When we arrange them, we curate nature's masterpiece. Whether you're crafting an opulent centerpiece for a soirée or simply adorning your living space with a touch of botanical splendor, floral arranging elevates the everyday.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Collecting Hobbies

In the bustling tapestry of life, hobbies are the jewels that young women can gather and cherish. Much more than mere pastimes, these pursuits enrich the soul, refine one's tastes, and empower personal growth.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Sealed with Elegance

In the world of stationery and classic correspondence, few things exude the timeless charm and elegance of a wax seal. These exquisite tokens of tradition have been used for centuries to adorn letters and documents, adding a touch of mystery and sophistication. Let's delve into the history, significance, and modern-day applications of wax seals.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

A Serene Sanctuary

In your quest for an impeccably organized and serene living space, allow us to introduce you to the timeless principles of French-inspired organization that not only declutter your home but also elevate it to a realm of sophistication.

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Ashley Kanlic Ashley Kanlic

Hostess with the Mostest

Darlings, imagine the delight of being called the hostess with the mostest, graciously welcoming friends and family to your elegant abode. Hosting overnight guests needn't be a cause for panic; it's an opportunity to showcase your refined hospitality. As The Bougie Brunette, I've honed the art of creating a mini bed-and-breakfast experience right in my own home.

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Rachel Kovach Rachel Kovach

Stylish Gestures

In the world of refined living, there's a cardinal rule: never come to a home empty-handed. Whether you're a guest at an elegant soirée or a cozy dinner gathering, a thoughtful hostess gift is your ticket to gracious sophistication.

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Rachel Kovach Rachel Kovach

The Art of Gift Wrapping

Picture this: You're nestled in a sumptuous armchair in your drawing room, savoring a cup of perfectly steeped Earl Grey, pondering the age-old art of gift-giving. You, dear Bougie Babes, understand that it's not just the gift itself but also the presentation that counts. Here, we delve into the fascinating world of gift wrapping, where tradition meets elegance.

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