Bougie Brunette Year in Review
Reflecting, Growing, and Preparing for 2025
As the calendar turns its final page, I find myself engaging in one of my favorite end-of-year rituals: conducting a thorough inventory of the past 12 months. Each year, I pause to assess what worked, what didn’t, and how I envision the upcoming year to look, feel, and unfold. It’s a tradition that grounds me, propelling me toward meaningful growth and intentional living.
A Year of Quiet Growth
This past year wasn’t filled with monumental achievements or bold leaps forward. Instead, it was a slow season of growth, a chapter dedicated to building a foundation and indulging in much-needed character development. Life felt quieter, more introspective. I gave myself the space to reflect, to be alone with my thoughts, and to recalibrate my goals. While it may not have been a year of grand milestones, it was a time to plant seeds for future aspirations.
There’s a saying that if it feels uncomfortable, you’re on the right path. Let’s just say, this year brought its share of discomfort—and a fair amount of Murphy’s Law proving itself true. Despite the struggles, I’ve embraced the pressure, knowing that great outcomes often come from challenging seasons. Diamonds, after all, are forged under immense pressure, and I am determined to emerge sparkling.
The Power of Change and Perspective
One thing I’ve come to appreciate is the immense potential life holds when we decide to change what isn’t serving us. If you don’t like something, change it. Don’t like the lane you’re in? Switch lanes. Dread your daily commute? Take a different route. These seemingly small shifts in perspective can reset your mindset and break you free from the zombie-like routines we all fall into at times.
This year, I’ve decided to approach 2025 with bold intention and creativity. To kickstart this journey, I’ve designed a fun and inspiring Bougie Brunette Goal Bingo Card—a playful way to map out and track my goals for the year ahead. Each square represents a milestone, and as I accomplish them, I’ll check them off and celebrate. If you’re ready to join me in pursuing your dreams, save the card and let’s embark on this adventure together.
The Beauty of Saying "No"
Looking back, I’ll admit I’m not entirely satisfied with my growth this past year. Life came at me fast, and I often found myself overwhelmed. One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned, however, is the power of the magical word: No.
This little word is an essential tool for eliminating distractions, obligations, or commitments that inhibit personal growth and fulfillment. Moving forward, I plan to wield it unapologetically, carving out space for what truly matters to me. By saying “no” more often, I can say “yes” to the things that align with my goals and values.
Embracing a Fresh Start
As I reflect on 2024, I feel both the weight of challenges and the excitement of potential. This year took a toll on me, but it also prepared me for a brighter, more focused future. I’m ready to turn the page and start anew. Future me—dancing and celebrating in 2025—is already proud of the groundwork we’re laying now.
The year ahead will be one of chasing dreams with fervor, embracing the discomfort of growth, and finding joy in the process. It’s about committing to the goals that set my soul on fire and letting go of the things that no longer serve me.
Join Me in Building a Beautiful 2025
To anyone who feels stuck or dissatisfied, I encourage you to take stock of your own year. Be honest about what worked and what didn’t, and give yourself grace for the seasons of slow growth. Remember, progress isn’t always linear, and even the quietest chapters have their purpose.
Let’s raise a glass to 2025 and go after our dreams with everything we’ve got. Whether you’re joining me in Bougie Brunette Goal Bingo or setting your own intentions, I hope you find the strength, courage, and joy to make this year your best one yet.
Here’s to fresh starts, bold goals, and the journey of becoming the best versions of ourselves. Let’s make 2025 unforgettable!
